Tell us what's happening
Answer a few questions about your relationship, communication, conflict and emotional connection.
Relationship Read
You're not crazy.
You're confused.
When the relationship feels different but you can't quite explain why, you start questioning everything — your instincts, your expectations, even yourself.
Heartwise helps you step back, look at the pattern, and understand what's actually happening.
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How it works
Three quiet steps to a clearer view.
Tell us what you can't explain
Describe what's been happening in your own words. No perfect explanation required.
See the pattern
Heartwise looks across your answers and your story to identify the relationship dynamics behind the uncertainty.
The read
A clearer view of what's happening.
Your relationship isn't defined by one conversation, one argument, or one bad week. Heartwise looks at the patterns underneath them.
Your Heartwise Read
Example of a Heartwise ReadPrimary pattern
Emotional inconsistency
Moderate signalWhat we're seeing
Your uncertainty appears to come less from one isolated event and more from a recurring pattern of closeness → distance → reconnection.
Worth paying attention to
Are things actually being resolved — or are they simply returning to normal?
Seven dimensions
What Heartwise looks at
Your answers and your own words are read across seven dimensions of a relationship. You'll never see raw scores — you'll see what they add up to.
- 01
Communication
Whether difficult things can be said, heard, and taken seriously.
- 02
Consistency
Whether his behaviour is predictable enough for you to feel steady.
- 03
Conflict & Repair
What happens after rupture — whether things close or simply pause.
- 04
Reciprocity
Who initiates, who repairs, who carries the relationship.
- 05
Relationship Clarity
How clear the terms of this relationship actually are.
- 06
Emotional Security
Whether you can relax in it, or spend your energy monitoring it.
- 07
Self-Connection
How much of yourself you've edited to keep the peace.
Our boundaries
Heartwise won't tell you what you want to hear.
We won't diagnose your partner, assume they're cheating, or tell you to stay or leave based on one difficult moment.
We'll help you separate what you know, what you feel, and what you may need to look at more closely.
You deserve clarity.
You don't need another opinion telling you what to do. You need a clearer view of what's actually happening.
Get My Relationship Read →3–5 minutes · Private · No judgement